Saturday, October 17, 2026

Patience Builds Community

 

I admit that I am running out of patience with things happening in this world. I am upset by the disruption to lives and families and communities caused by Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) officers. I am furious with the endless and pointless war in Iran. I don't like the way developers have been able to control policies at Tallahassee City Hall and the way that artists now have to choose their words carefully when seeking grant funding because anything considered "Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion" or D.E.I. is verboten in Florida. 

But patience really is the key to making real lasting change. Patience is what allows people to wrestle and negotiate the best path forward. 

And it is clear that even in the days of the early church, patience truly was a virtue.

See what you think.

Text: Philippians 4:1-9

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You know that saying, “Patience is a virtue”?

It’s one of those phrases that people like to drop on other people when they’re not being patient.

I’ve always thought I was patient.

Then we got our cat Romeo.

Romeo is a very good hunter…or at least he is good at catching tiny geckos and bringing them into the house.

When he plays…he’ll lie very still for several… way too long minutes…. before he finally pounces on the toy at the end of a string.

He feels triumphant as he wrestles with his play thing.

Often he wins those games….because I’ve already lost my patience waiting for him to do something!

The actual phrase…patience is a virtue… dates back to a 14th century poem…but the idea has existed a lot longer than that.

It’s one of the major tenets found in both Eastern and Western religions.

And I think it is at the heart of many of our readings this morning.

We definitely hear it in the story of the Golden Calf. The Israelites lose patience waiting for Moses.

God starts to lose patience with a people who make other gods for themselves.

And Moses appeals to God to have more patience…which God listens to and relents.

Whew!

We can also hear it in Paul’s Letter to the Philippians….which could be like a letter to just about any faith community of today.

The Easter Season was more than a minute ago.

We heard the story of Pentecost with the Holy Spirit making a dramatic entrance into the Upper Room back in May.

We’re now at the 20th Sunday since Pentecost.

As the weeks and months have worn on…and we’ve experienced sufferings…from the deeply personal to the existential.

In times such as this…it’s easy to lose our focus and go down rabbit holes that want to take us deep into the warren of despair.

And when we fall into that trap… that’s when we start losing patience.

We have disputes…people start working at cross purposes to one another…often out of a sense of urgency.

That was all true of the early Christian church as well.

We hear Paul telling this new church at Philippi…”Hey, Euodia and Syntyche…I need y’all to slow down…chill out…and quit fighting with each other.”

We don’t know what the problem was between these two women. 

But what we can gather from Paul’s words that whatever it was…it was causing stress within the church community.

Stress that wasn’t needed in a time and a place where the church was a minority in a still challenging environment of Roman empirical rule. 

And given that he named them…these were clearly two church women who were in the leadership ranks.

Both probably had their own ideas as to how things ought to be done in the church.

Both were good and faithful church members and wanted to serve.

And Paul…from his jail cell…is reminding them and all the church…including us… that the one mission that matters is the Gospel mission of Love:

To care for the poor…the sick…the hungry…and the oppressed…and those in prison…both the literal and the figurative.

And all of that requires working together…with patience and forbearance for each other’s quirks and attitudes.

And it can happen with joy…even in the middle of difficult circumstances and trying times.

Paul loved the church at Philippi and really wanted them to succeed.

Not for the sake of his ego…but for what the Christian church stood for: a place of building up those who were getting knocked down by the Roman Empire…and connecting them to the God of Love…Mercy…and Compassion.

Taking people who often felt harassed and tired….and giving them hope.

We can hear this in his opening sentence…when he talks about the Philippians being his “joy and my crown.”

The “crown” is a reference to the victory wreaths that were awarded to athletes and the winners in a contest.

These wreaths were made from real twigs and metal that was twisted together.

Think of the images of the Greek god Apollo…and other larger than life figures from ancient times…wearing them on their heads or holding them in their hands.

For Paul…the Philippians of the church…who…through the care they offered to him while he sat in prison…proved they were winners.

And their hard work was the outward and visible symbol of the victory that happens when Love goes into motion with all the members putting forth their best efforts.

When they are diligent… persistent and patient with themselves and each other…that’s when others see the light of Christ in them.

Not as an individual achievement of greatness…but as a team.

That’s what it means to be “in community.”

I remember the late Governor Lawton Chiles of Florida in his first state of the state address to the legislature talked about working toward Florida being a community and not a crowd.

The idea of a crowd represented people who were engaged in jockeying for position…bumping up against each other…and trying to push aside anyone they considered a rival for attention.

As long as they got what they thought was their share… members of the crowd didn’t care what happened to anyone else.

Community…on the other hand…evoked a sense of responsibility… not only for oneself but for others. 

Communities pulled together to make a difference that wasn’t just for a day…but hopefully for a lifetime…improving things for the current and future generations.

And making things easier…better…bigger and brighter…for more people…that’s truly a reason to rejoice.

Working together to make things happen is critical to building up joy in the church.

And we know that from our own efforts here at St. Barnabas.

When there’s a need to lay out pallets for the pumpkin patch…people show up in the middle of Wednesday to help.

When a member of the altar guild or a person scheduled to be a lector falls ill…someone steps in to take on that task.

When we hear of government cutbacks to food assistance programs…people pull from their pantries to put items in the basket out in our narthex…or contribute to entities in their towns and still others go to help feed the hungry on the streets of Valdosta.

Together…we do make a difference in the ways that we are able to do so.

That’s important in these times when going to the grocery store or watching the evening news makes us keenly aware that all is not right in society.

We have the chance… and indeed we’ve been invited and called… to be the people who show up and are ready to respond as good stewards of our church and our community.

As Paul says…”keep on doing the things that you have learned and received and heard” knowing that God is working through us in our efforts to make this world a place of health…healing…and hope with unconditional love.

In the name of our One Holy and Undivided Trinity.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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