Turning Attention to Indianapolis

Now that the majority of the Church of England dioceses have rejected the so-called Anglican Communion Covenant, those of us with a passion for preserving the Communion are putting our collective minds toward seeing the Covenant defeated at the Episcopal Church's General Convention 2012 in Indianapolis this summer.

One might think this shouldn't be too tough to sell the House of Bishops and the House of Deputies, the two governing bodies, on the wisdom of rejecting a document that couldn't even hold up in its home base of the Church of England.  But this is the United States.  These are our bishops, clergy and laity. And we have certainly seen bizarre and unimaginable things happen when you put a question up for a vote in this country! 

The members of the No Anglican Covenant Coalition, especially the ones with working knowledge of how to draft resolutions and exactly how to wordsmith these things, are making a modest proposal for the delegates to GC2012 to consider.  Please feel free to share this post  with delegates from your own diocese or go to the NACC blog and find the resolution in Word document and PDF form.  Our hope is that many delegates to the Episcopal Church's GC2012 will consider our position, and vote a simple, "Thanks, but no thanks" to the Anglican Covenant so we can get on with the business of the Church's mission of sharing Love with the world.  Perhaps when all this covenant business is behind us, we might start to see each other again as brothers and sisters in Christ and not brutal enemies that must be destroyed.

Title: Relation to the Anglican Communion

Resolved, the House of _______ concurring, That the 77^th General Convention give thanks to all who have worked to increase understanding and strengthen relationships among the churches of the Anglican Communion, and be it further

Resolved, That the General Convention reaffirm the commitment of this church to the fellowship of autonomous national and regional churches that is the Anglican Communion; and be it further

Resolved, That the General Convention believe that sister churches of the Anglican Communion are properly drawn together by bonds of affection, by participation in the common mission of the gospel, and by consultation without coercion or intimidation; and be it further

Resolved, That the General Convention, having prayerfully considered the merits of the Anglican Communion Covenant and believing said agreement to be contrary to Anglican ecclesiology and tradition and to the best interests of the Anglican Communion, respectfully decline to adopt the same; and be it further

Resolved, That the General Convention call upon the leaders of The Episcopal Church at every level to seek opportunities to reach out to strengthen and restore relationships between this church and sister churches of the Communion.

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Explanation: Churches of the Anglican Communion have been asked to adopt the so-called Anglican Communion Covenant. The suggestion for such an agreement was made in the 2004 Windsor Report, which proposed “the adoption by the churches of the Communion of a common Anglican Covenant which would make explicit and forceful the loyalty and bonds of affection which govern the relationships between the churches of the Communion.”

The Windsor Report was produced at the request of Primates upset with the impending consecration of Gene Robinson as Bishop of New Hampshire and the promulgation of a liturgy for the blessing of same-sex unions by the Diocese of New Westminster in the Anglican Church of Canada.

Archbishop Drexel Gomez, of the Anglican Province of the West Indies, was entrusted with leading the development of the first draft of a covenant. This same Archbishop Gomez was one of the editors of To Mend the Net, a collection of essays dating from 2001 and advocating enhancing the power of the Anglican Primates to deter, inter alia, the ordination of women and “active homosexuals,” as well as the blessing of same-sex unions. Archbishop Gomez’s punitive agenda remains evident in the final draft of the proposed Covenant.

Despite protestations to the contrary, the Anglican Communion Covenant attempts to create a centralized authority that would constrain the self-governance of The Episcopal Church and other churches of the Communion. This unacceptably inhibits Communion churches from pursuing the gospel mission as they discern it.

The Church of England has already declined to adopt the Anglican Communion Covenant. The House of Bishops of the Episcopal Church in the Philippines has indicated that they will not support the Covenant, and the rejection of the Covenant by the Tikanga Maori of the Anglican Church in Aotearoa, New Zealand and Polynesia renders it virtually certain that those churches will also reject the Covenant. A number of Global South churches have indicated that they will decline to adopt the Covenant.

The deficiencies of the Covenant are legion, and the Anglican Communion faces the prospect of becoming a fellowship not united but divided by the Covenant. It is essential to reject the Anglican Communion Covenant in order to avoid the Communion’s permanent, institutionalized division.

Episcopalians Who Stand Against Bigotry

I am heartened by this photograph.  The bishop is Rt. Rev. Michael Curry of the diocese of North Carolina.  At least one of the priests was identified as being from St. Luke's Episcopal Church in Durham, NC.  They have taken a public stand against North Carolina's Amendment One which would put into the state constitution language defining marriage as being between a a man and a woman.  It would also eliminate recognition of domestic partnerships.  

All three of the state's bishops, Curry, Rt. Rev. Clifton Daniel III of East Carolina, and Rt. Rev. G. Porter Taylor of Western North Carolina, signed a joint letter condemning the proposed amendment.  Part of their letter reads:

“We oppose Amendment One because the love of God and the way of love that has been revealed in Jesus of Nazareth compels us to do so. We oppose Amendment One because every time we baptize someone in The Episcopal Church, the entire congregation vows to ‘strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being.’ We oppose Amendment One because it is unjust and it does not respect the dignity of every human being in the State of North Carolina. If passed, it will harm not only law-abiding gay and lesbian citizens but other men, women and innocent children in our state.”

One of my FB friends who is a Christian raised a point that the bishops should be opposing the amendment on the grounds that it is unconstitutional for the state to dictate to a church who it may or may not marry or have participate in any of its rites.  That certainly is AN argument.  But what is more important is to have the church leaders taking a stand on a matter of civil rights rather than sit back and watch from the sidelines as others claiming the mantle of Christ attempt to write their form of religious-based bigotry into a state constitution.   I wish more bishops and priests would speak out on matters such as this.

Now that the bishops have done their part, it is time for the voters to do theirs.  Vote No on Amendment One.  

Mark the Evangelist and Jesus the Rebel

Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.

 Today we are celebrating Mark the evangelist, the one believed to be the first of the gospel writers.  I love all the gospels for different reasons.  My love of Mark's gospel has nothing to do with its short length (which seems to be the only thing most priests use as a selling point for reading it from start to finish).  Instead, it's the portrayal of Jesus in Mark's telling of the story.  Mark's Jesus is a man of action.   Mark's Jesus is constantly on the move and does not suffer fools.  Mark's Jesus is a rebel, but unlike James Dean, he is a rebel with a cause: to get everyone back in line with God's program of unconditional love. 

My vision of Mark's Jesus is the one with his jaw set toward Jerusalem, his shirt sleeves of his tunic rolled up, and some hefty Doc Marten-like sandals.  This Jesus is ready to rumble, and you can either follow... or get out of his way.  

Who is this Mark of the Gospels?  Well, it's hard to know.  There is some speculation that he is the man named John Mark in the Gospels, and that he is the man in Mark's gospel who the Romans tried to seize during the arrest of Jesus, but only managed to grab the man's loin cloth from his body, forcing him to runaway naked.  Scholars think this is an odd detail to include, unless it's the author reporting what had happened to him during that height of tension in the passion story.

This morning, as I listened to our assigned reading from Ecclesiasticus, I was reminded of what else makes Mark's gospel such a living testament for me.

My child, when you come to serve the Lord,
   prepare yourself for testing.
 Set your heart right and be steadfast,
   and do not be impetuous in time of calamity.

To be a Christian is inherently countercultural and unpopular.  After all, Jesus' mission was to get people to love more:  both God and each other.  In our own world today, such a message would be scoffed at as ridiculous.   And, given that LGBT people are persecuted on the grounds of how and who we love, when we are expressing love in a queer Christian context... whoa, Nellie!  How appropriate, then, to be reminded in this bit of wisdom literature that when we become part of Christ and serve the purpose of Love, we will be tested and face calamity.

Accept whatever befalls you,
   and in times of humiliation be patient.
 For gold is tested in the fire,
   and those found acceptable, in the furnace of humiliation.
 Trust in him, and he will help you;
   make your ways straight, and hope in him.   

Again, this is more balm to the aching soul of the one who is courageous enough, or foolish enough, to live in Love.  I know this to be true in my own life.  I have dealt with the prejudice of those who either don't think I belong in the church because I'm queer or (worse) partnered and queer, or don't think I make for a very good queer because I'm Christian.   And yet, I go on and refuse to apologize for either of my identities.  As a result, it has forced some to moderate their distrust of me.  So much so that some were shocked when I told them about the hateful commentary that has taken over the post of my video "Queer vs. Christian."   

You who fear the Lord, wait for his mercy;
   do not stray, or else you may fall.
You who fear the Lord, trust in him,
   and your reward will not be lost.
You who fear the Lord, hope for good things,
   for lasting joy and mercy.

Remembering that "fear" does not mean, "quaking in my boots" but rather "in awe" of God, all these statements feel true to me.   And I know that on some days I do better at remembering all this than on others.  Lately, I have felt oddly separated and apart from God.  Or, more accurately, I have encountered static interference that has made it hard for me to hear God amidst the ever-present and increasing white noise.   This passage seemed to be coming at me through a bullhorn so as not to be missed.  It has not been.  These are the words upon which I will meditate this evening as I go to sleep.

Consider the generations of old and see:
   has anyone trusted in the Lord and been disappointed?
Or has anyone persevered in the fear of the Lord and been forsaken?
   Or has anyone called upon him and been neglected?    

For the Lord is compassionate and merciful;
   he forgives sins and saves in time of distress. 

Yes.  Yes.  And Yes to this.  Is it any wonder that I was definitive in my response to the familiar, "The Word of the Lord" with a "Thanks be to God!!"?

A perfect, no-nonsense, and direct statement from Hebrew Scripture to reflect the day set aside in remembrance of the no-nonsense and direct evangelist!   

Celibacy? Grow up!

This is a post that has been nagging at me for a long, long time. And it was the recent publication of a presidential address from the Bishop Barry Morgan in Wales that has finally pulled this post from the depths of my brain and out into the blogosphere.

Bishop Morgan's address is aimed at a particular issue facing the Church in Wales about the lack of movement on the part of the church to allow for the civil registration of same-sex partners in a church building as opposed to a government office.  Apparently, this question has been before the Bishops for a year and they have been ducking it ever since.   Now there is the discussion of allowing actual marriage equality which only further exacerbates this particular issue.

But all of that is just the cover for the deeper point that Bishop Morgan wants to address. This is more about the inherent discrimination faced by LGBT people within the church at a myriad of levels, and not just where they can register their partnerships.   Bishop Morgan is getting to the nub of the whole thing: we gay people are given a conditional welcome.  Or, as Bishop Barbara Harris says, the LGBT people of faith are treated like some kind of "half-assed baptized."

It is true.  Churches are more than happy to have us join, but what happens when we are moved by the Holy Spirit?  What happens when we feel our relationship with God growing deeper and stronger?  What happens when we feel our talents and innate, God-given gifts require us to move from the laity to the ordained?  Suddenly, we go from the stranger invited into the home to being treated like a relative who has overstayed their welcome.

For example, consider the rule that exists in some dioceses that says if someone is seeking ordination, they must be either married or celibate.  Since Florida does not allow LGBT people to marry, nor does it recognize the rights and privileges afforded to lesbian and gay couples who marry in another state, anyone of the gay persuasion seeking to discern a call to the priesthood must be celibate.   Unmarried straights will quickly add that they, too, must be celibate under the rule.  That is true.  And it is also wrongheaded.  There should be no requirement that someone take the extraordinary vow of celibacy.  And while I can feel bad for those straight people who must walk a precarious line while dating someone when they are in discernment, I can't help but note that they DO have an option: they CAN get married.  In Florida, LGBT people can not.  Why then is there this demand?  Even Bishop Morgan says:

[But] can celibacy be imposed?  Shouldn't it be freely undertaken as a personal vocation by heterosexuals and homosexuals alike?  As Rowan Williams once put it, "anyone who knows the complexities of the true celibate vocation, would be the last to have any sympathy with the extraordinary idea that sexual orientation is an automatic pointer to a celibate life: almost as if celibacy before God is less costly, even less risky to the homosexual than the heterosexual."  And is not separating mind and body or feelings or orientation from practice a kind of dualism which the church has condemned in the past since human beings are a unified whole and cannot be compartmentalised in such a way.  If that is true of humanity in general, why should we expect people of a homosexual disposition to be singled out in this way? 

There is no good answer for this question.  It appears to me that the only reason for this extra requirement is to deal with the prejudice that still exists within the church toward those of us who are in same-sex relationships.  The gospel commands us and expects us to bend toward justice, not cater to the prejudices and make peace with oppressive attitudes just so that some can feel comfortable.

Bishop Morgan wonders how can the Church of Wales show that the gospel is good news for the homosexuals?  I have a very simple answer: treat us with same dignity, respect, and acceptance that is fully expected and granted to the heterosexual majority.   Do not demand that we prove ourselves even more worthy of God's love and grace as baptized members of the Body of Christ.   And allow us to live into our full baptism which includes all the sacraments of the Church. Then I will believe that the Church is willing and able to tell of the good news that is in the Gospel.  

In short, grow up and grow into the Body of Christ, and allow Christ, not the flawed and too-human episcopate, to be the head. 

Yom HaShoah

Today we remember all those who were victims or were killed in the Holocaust in Europe during the reign of Adolf Hitler.  I encourage you to follow THIS LINK to the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum and watch the video, "Why We Remember the Holocaust."  

I say we remember the victims because the type of mass murder carried out by the Nazis has left permanent scars on the psyches of millions.  It makes the Biblical admonitions about the sins of one generation affecting those after a very real truth.  Even though we are now a few generations removed from Hitler's rule in Germany, the suffering he inflicted on Jews and non-Jews who were viewed as "others" to be exterminated (gypsies, gays, disabled, communists, even Free Masons...), not to mention the bombings of other countries, has touched the lives of those who were not yet born during those years.   I will never forget the first full-blown conversation I had with my German exchange student as we sat next to each other in the back seat of my parents car.  She asked me if I knew who Adolf Hitler was.

"Ja, natürlich,"  I said.

"Not all Germans are like that," she told me.  The fact that she felt the need to explain this made me realize the devastation that had been done to more than Jewish people, but to the generations of Germans since the end of World War II.

As the video notes, we still as a species struggle with prejudice that has led to horrific crimes against humanity.  Bosnia. Rwanda.  Dafur.  And those are the ones that the media has exposed.

We must never make peace with oppression.   We must never look away from how we contribute to the degradation of others through our silence.  This Day of Remembrance must be a day where we again commit ourselves to never allow fear and hatred of the "other" to destroy and disrupt humanity.

Widening the Circle of Faith

I'm back from the Pride Interfaith service which serves as the kick-off for Tallahassee's LGBT Pride Week.  How many gay pride events in the country start their week with a coming together of various faith traditions to create sacred queer space?

Answer: not many!  And that's what makes Tallahassee special.   

This year, we had 100 people in attendance, certainly rivaling some congregations Sunday worship services.  There was a combined choir from the Unitarian Universalist Church with Temple Israel, the reformed synagogue.  Pagans, Buddhists, Evangelical and Mainline Christians, and--yes--even Free Thinkers took turns and offered words of wisdom to those assembled in a spirit of radical inclusion.  As a minister serving Gentle Shepherd MCC noted, the service was not about tolerating each other but recognizing the widening circle of faith.

For me and my partner, this service has always been a special one.  It was the Pride Interfaith service in 1993 that served to spark in both of us that longing to belong to a spiritual community again.  Both of us had retreated from our respective religious roots.  But being in a space that was affirming of our sexual orientation, and lifting us up through a variety of faith traditions started me on a quest to figure out where I belonged.  I looked into Judaism.  I tried Buddhism.  I even circled with pagans.  All of them were good.  All of them have something to offer.  And none of them felt right.  For me, the missing piece--Jesus Christ--was just too big a deal.  No matter what I did, I could not reject my baptism.  But at the time, there was no place for me in Christianity in Tallahassee, either.  I am an Episcopalian, and there was no Episcopal Church that embraced the LGBT community.  

That all changed for me in 2007 with the death of my father.  The last church that I had attended, St. John's, had been freed from the grip of a highly homophobic Rector, and the associate rector at the time, my mentor Mtr. Lee F. Shafer, extended the olive branch and invited me to return, so that I might taste and see that God is good... even in an Episcopal Church in Tallahassee. 

This evening, St. John's and Church of the Ascension at Carrabelle took a step toward coming out of their own closets to show radical inclusion of the LGBT faithful and their allies.  Yours truly and the Rev. Phoebe McFarlin served as the "Episcoposse" and led what we called, "Prayers of Inclusion".   I was Leader 1;  Mtr. Phoebe was Leader 2.  And we had the voices of many joining us as the congregation.  Read along, and see what you think.  

Episcopal Prayers for Inclusion for Pride Interfaith 2012

Leader 1:  When Jesus came to the place, he looked up and said to him, ‘Zacchaeus, hurry and come down; for I must stay at your house today.’ So he hurried down and was happy to welcome him. All who saw it began to grumble and said, ‘He has gone to be the guest of one who is a sinner.’  Then Jesus said to him, ‘Today salvation has come to this house, because he too is a son of Abraham.  For the Son of Man came to seek out and to save the lost.’ --Luke 19:5-7; 9-10

Leader 2:   Jesus beckoned Zacchaeus, a tax collector of small stature, to come down from the sycamore tree to be joined with him much to the displeasure of the crowd.  We ask that all who seek to be found amidst the grumbling crowd be discovered and guided toward light and love.

Congregation:  Come in and be welcomed.

Leader 1: He said to her, “Let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs.”  But she answered him, “Sir, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.”—Mark 7:27-28

Leader 2:  The Syrophoenician woman heard the rebuke of her plea for help.  And rather than retreat, she stood her ground and asserted her place as a Gentile child of God.  Her courage and faith was recognized and rewarded with the healing of her daughter.  Grant to those who have heard the words of exclusion the power to stand firm and receive the grace promised through their faith.

Congregation:  Come stand with us and be welcomed.

Leader 1:  The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, one of whom was named Shiphrah and the other Puah, ‘When you act as midwives to the Hebrew women, and see them on the birthstool, if it is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, she shall live.’ But the midwives feared God; they did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them, but they let the boys live. So the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and said to them, ‘Why have you done this, and allowed the boys to live?’ The midwives said to Pharaoh, ‘Because the Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women; for they are vigorous and give birth before the midwife comes to them.’ So God dealt well with the midwives; and the people multiplied and became very strong.—Exodus 1:15-20

Leader 2:  The midwives actions saved the Israelites from a hostile king at a peril to their own lives.  Let us give thanks for all those who stand up for others in the face of oppression.

Congregation:  For those who hold offices of public trust, for the advocates of justice both here and abroad.

Leader 1: I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son; treat me like one of your hired hands.’ ” So he set off and went to his father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion; he ran and put his arms around him and kissed him. –Luke 15:18-20

Leader 2:  The father of the prodigal son rejoices and before the son is able to make his plea, the father has fitted him with fine robes and orders they throw a party for this son who was thought to be dead but is now alive.  We give thanks for parents and families that have welcomed all their children home and pray for healing and reconciliation for those still looking for acceptance and understanding.

Congregation: May love abound in families, both of our blood relations and those of our choosing.

Leader 1: But wanting to justify himself, he asked Jesus, ‘And who is my neighbor?’Jesus replied, ‘A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell into the hands of robbers, who stripped him, beat him, and went away, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a priest was going down that road; and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan while travelling came near him; and when he saw him, he was moved with pity. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, having poured oil and wine on them. Then he put him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. –Luke 10: 29-34   

Leader 2:   We are often faced with those who are different from ourselves. And sometimes those differences lead to violence toward one another.  How do we respond to the one in need?  Do we turn away because they aren’t like us, or do we stop to help?  We ask for the ability to see our differences not as things which divide and separate but as part of the diversity of creation that is to be celebrated and honored.

Congregation:   Help us to see each other more clearly and live more in Love.

Leader 1:  And may the peace that passes all understanding be always with you.

Congregation: And also with you.

A Lesbian Goes to a Wedding

For those of you who regularly check-in here, sorry for the absence.  I have been slammed to the wall with the preparation for this past weekend's Mickee Faust Club cabaret show (which runs again next weekend).  It has taken every ounce of my energy, and free time, to prepare for the show.  And we had a PFLAG meeting. And I'm fighting with car insurance companies.  And I need to file my taxes.  You get my drift...

Oh, and I was asked to read at a wedding taking place at St. John's on Saturday afternoon.  That meant attending the rehearsal Friday night before heading off to the Mickee Faust Clubhouse for opening night.

I only casually know the bride.  She and I are friends on Facebook, so I was surprised and honored that I was asked to participate in the service.  She attends St. John's and has heard me read lessons and lead prayers; hence I became a designated reader at her wedding.

I was asked to read a passage from the Song of Solomon, one of the most beautiful love poems and highly evocative books in the Old Testament.  The Episcopal Church only designates one reading from that book for weddings, which I think is strange because there are lots of places in the Song that would be appropriate.  Jews, for example, use the portion which says, "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine" for their weddings.  The Episcopal Church chooses the part that talks about being "set as a seal upon my heart, a seal upon my arm."  And how "many waters can not drench love."   At the rehearsal, I read through my portion aloud and then went to sit down in the pew.  One of the bridesmaids stopped me.

"Solomon?  As in King Solomon?"

"Yes, I think that's who they are attributing that book to, yes."

"Y'know, he was a magician!"

This then led to an explanation of how Solomon wasn't Christian etc. etc. (which he wouldn't have been, since Christ came much later in the scheme of things...)  I took note of the woman's necklace which appeared to be a faery star.

"Are you pagan?" I asked.

"Yes, for forty years!" This was followed with information about God and Goddess, something that she said took "too long to explain for you to understand."

"I know pagans, so I'm familiar with what you're talking about."

The woman seemed surprised and smiled.  I was clearly not the kind of Christian she thought I was or perhaps had ever encountered before.  After the rehearsal I made some more inquiry about her particular practice, and let her vent some more about what the Christians had done to the pagans throughout the course of time.  Again, having friends and also having studied the history of the Church in EfM, I was not ignorant to those things that we have done that we perhaps ought not to have done.  And I didn't want to get into a fight by reminding her that before Constantine decided Christianity was super cool, pagans were slaughtering those who were followers of "the Way."    Those in power are always going to be the bad guys in the story.

The next day, the day of the wedding, the woman thanked me for having listened to her.  She was glad that she had been allowed to express herself and that I had heard her out.  I was glad that she was in that place and was hoping in my heart that if she felt so strongly about Solomon's pagan roots, then she might hear the inherent paganism in the words I was reading and maybe take some of that away with her.

Thinking more on her, I could understand how someone who is viewed with disdain and distrust by the local clergy, as I have learned through recent conversations, would have been on edge and arriving at the church with a chip firmly in place on shoulder.  What she didn't realize is that, as a lesbian, I was also,oddly, an outsider in this setting.  Even though this is my church, and my tradition, this particular sacrament is one in which I am routinely told through the language, "You are not welcome."  And when you live in Florida, a state where the voters decided to prohibit marriage equality in the constitution, every mention of joining the "man" and the "woman" in the service is like another slap across my cheek.  But then, Jesus did say if you are slapped on one cheek, offer the other.  Not as an act of pure passivity, but as a show of passive resistance to the prevailing Roman authority of the day, who would have been shamed for slapping a second time.

And the Romans were pagan, she writes with a sly smile.

Some of my concerns with our wedding sacrament will likely be addressed by the delegates at the General Convention this summer.  Or at least they will be addressed for those people living in jurisdictions that have marriage equality.  For those of us in places where we are second-class citizens, the actions of the national church will be a lovely show viewed through the gauzy haze of continued discrimination.  And we will likely be the lost and forgotten ones as those in New York and Boston and Burlington and DC and Des Moines and Manchester and Hartford rejoice and sing a new song.

Some day, I hope that I will get to sing along in that chorus of "Free at last!"  Some day.