Friday, April 15, 2022

Love Wins...Even When It Looks Like It's Losing: A Good Friday Sermon

 Because the services of the Triduum are one very long continuous service, I chose not to pray before I started. Instead...I picked up on this one section of John's Passion Gospel. And--truth be told--I cribbed quite a bit from some previous blog entries to write this one. It helps that I was one deep theological thinker for years before I was even allowed to go to seminary. LOL!

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“Meanwhile, standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother's sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, "Woman, here is your son." Then he said to the disciple, "Here is your mother." And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.” (John 19:25b-27)

 

Last night…Jesus taught us through a meal and foot washing how to love and be true friends to one another.

Here…at his final hours of his life…most of the inner band of beloved friends have disappeared.

Love is left vulnerable and suffering.

He cries out for God: My God! My God! Why have you forsaken me?

Where are you?

It is an intense scene. It is also this experience of agony that for so many who have felt themselves pushed into the margins of society…this is how they see God as having been through the same wringer…the same hardships and sting of rejection…and as the hymn says, ‘the strife is o’er, the battle done. The victory of life is won!’  Because this is not the end of Jesus. He is winning…even as it appears on the outside that he’s losing. God is taking the world’s sins into the grave and will resurrect Jesus on the third day.

I quoted at the start some lines that struck me. As I’ve said, even after Jesus has shown his disciples how to be friends, most of them have run away in the face of Jesus’ arrest. But the women…three Marys including his mother…are standing in the crowd…watching him die. With them is the beloved disciple…John.  Jesus, as he is dying this excruciating death, gazes down…and brings together two people into a familial kinship of mother and son.  Before this moment, Mother Mary and Disciple John may have been, at most, acquaintances.  But Jesus is providing the bond that draws two strangers together in Love.  

In suffering, pain, and heartache…John and Mary cling to each other and he takes her into his home.

Another verse in the Gospel passage from tonight also caught my attention. It’s in reference to the criminals executed with Jesus:

There they crucified him, and with him two others, one on either side, with Jesus between them.

John's Gospel doesn't elaborate on this moment in the way that Matthew and Luke feel the need to discuss the ones hanging alongside Jesus.  Matthew would have us believe that the criminals, who we believe are justly accused as opposed to innocent Jesus, join with the crowds in mocking him.  Luke, on the other hand, gives us a more hope-filled moment where one criminal is mocking Christ, and the other criminal comes to Jesus' defense and asks Christ to remember him.  And Jesus, again during his own physical pain, assures that criminal that today, he will be with Christ in Paradise…redeeming the dead. 

Jesus' arms, stretched out on the hard wood of the cross, is reaching out to those condemned to die with him.  That reach, extending forward to us today, invites us, too, to die with Christ to all those various sins of failure to love more fully, pay attention to those around us, reach out to those in need.  This is the day of recognition, reconciliation, and repentance. 

It seems fitting, then, that Good Friday represents the day that hangs in-between Maundy Thursday and Holy Saturday and the Easter Vigil proclamation that Christ has risen.  It is the middle ground between Thursday night's shared meal, foot washing, and final instructions to love one another as Christ has loved us and made that love a visible sign in going to the cross to claim the ultimate victory over sin and death.

And…just in case we still didn’t get it…the empty tomb of Easter shows us that nothing, absolutely nothing, will destroy Love and separate us from God. Ever! 

The solemness and the hard wood of the Good Friday cross remind us that we must endure and pass through this pain before we can celebrate on Sunday morning.

Good Fridays happen….and I know we have all been living through what might have felt like one extremely long Good Friday period.

But Easters will follow.   

Jesus’ place, in between two acquaintances and two strangers, is the constant reminder that even as we are in pain in our Good Friday moments, we are not exempt from reaching our hands forth in Love to the other, all of those we call "other." Keep the faith, dear Easter people of God!   

 

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