Friday, December 26, 2025

To Be Like God: A Christmas Eve sermon

 


I know I gave this sermon a different title on our St. Barnabas YouTube channel, but it occurs to me this title fits better with my overall message. 

I used this same Grimm Brothers story in an entry on my Substack, and as I was writing that entry...and as I discussed the story with my spiritual director, I realized that this anti-fairy tale had a theological as well as a moral message for us. 

See what you think. And Merry Christmas!

Text: Luke 2:1-20

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As a child…I enjoyed being read to at bedtime.

And it was often my dad who would read me to sleep.

One of my favorite stories was by the Grimm Brothers.

It was called The Fisherman and His Wife.

It’s an anti-fairy tale… the story of two people living in abject poverty by the sea.

One day…the fisherman goes out to the water…and he catches this tremendous flounder.

The fish pleads with the fisherman to please let him go…he’s not just a fish but a prince.

The fisherman was pretty amazed to have found a talking fish…so of course he releases him…and the fish dives deep into the sea.

The fisherman goes back to his wife and tells her all about this amazing talking fish.

But his wife was wondering why her husband hadn’t thought to ask for something from this fish.

The fisherman shrugs and says he wouldn’t know what to ask for.

The wife looks around.

“We’re living in a pig sty. You could have asked for a nice cottage. Go back to the sea and ask for a cottage.”

The fisherman reluctantly goes back and he notices that the sea has become a strange murky green color.

He calls out to the fish:

“O man of the sea! Hearken to me! My wife Ilsabill will have her own will and hath sent me to beg a boon of thee!”

The fish comes swimming to the surface, “What does she want?”

The fisherman tells him she wants a nice cottage.

The fish tells him this request has been granted and to go home.

The fisherman goes home and finds his wife in a beautiful cottage with a couple of rooms…a nice kitchen…a garden with chickens and other animals.

This is a big step up from the pig sty.

His wife is delighted…..for a week.

But then she wants more.

She wants a stone castle.

She tells her husband to go back to the sea and ask the fish for a castle.

Again…he goes…even though he’s not really feeling great about all of this.

The sea is looking darker…and choppier. He gives the same bidding for the fish to hear his wife’s plea for a castle.

The fish again tells him to go home and he’ll find his wife waiting for him.

And sure enough…there’s now a stone castle and she has a throne with diamonds and gold.

But she’s still not satisfied.

Next she wants to be the Empress.

The fisherman is sent back to the angry sea…and the fish grants her the wish of being the Empress.

Certainly…that should satisfy her needs.

But no.

She wants to be the Pope.

The fisherman protests that she can’t possibly be made Pope…but she demands that he go to fish and tells him she wants to be made Pope.

The fisherman drudges back to the now very stormy sea…makes the request… and the fish makes her the first female pope in the history of Roman Catholicism.

She’s still not satisfied.

It only takes her a few hours to be bored with being Pope. It’s not grand enough.

She wants to be God….to rule over the Sun and the Moon.

The fisherman is really not wanting to go back and ask for this…but his wife thunders that he must go ask the fish to make her God.

So he goes back…to a sea with dark waters and lightening flashing everywhere as the waves are crashing onto the shore.

The fisherman makes his standard plea for the fish to come to the surface and hear his wife’s latest request.

“What does she want,” asks the fish.

The fisherman trembling tells the fish that she wants to be God.

So the fish grants this wish too.

And when the fisherman goes home…he finds that the couple has been returned to their lowly estate of living in a pig sty.

The Grimm Brothers story is one about the dangers of greed…and how it can consume and warp a person.

But I think if we consider the ending…it also makes an interesting point about God.

When the wife wants to be God…she assumes this is going to grant her powers beyond all powers…to give her more wealth and prestige than even stature of royalty and the papacy.

But to be like God in this story is to be poor.

Seems the Grimm Brothers not only understood the way greed distorts the human soul…they also knew something about the nature of God.

Because we know from our stories in the Gospels…when God enters the world through the birth of Jesus…it happens not in a grand palace to the super rich and famous.

God arrives in the form of a baby…a vulnerable child born to a carpenter and his very young fiancĂ©.

And when the angels come to sing and trumpet the good news of Glory to God and Peace on Earth… they didn’t bring these glad tidings to the Herods of the region…or any of the other tetrarchs or even to the Roman Emperor…Caesar Augustus.

They found the shepherds…those who were among the lower working class…tasked with spending their nights watching over the sacrificial sheep belonging to the Temple…to hear this incredible news.

I think this is one of the important messages to us here in the 21st century as we revisit this story and welcome this season of Christmas.

God loves and seeks out those who are on the margins of society…and God takes those who the rest of the world ignores and puts them into the center.

Because for God…borders are meaningless and people are not to be put into figurative boxes.

Each of us has a life that is important and meaningful to God…no matter who we are…or what labels we own.

And let’s face it: God isn’t about being tidy either.

Think about it.

Childbirth is risky and bloody…even in our modern world with sterilized equipment and trained medical staff.

And what we’re told is that Jesus was born amidst the hay and the animals because there wasn’t enough room for this poor couple to be lodged with other humans.

I read an article recently that described the terrain of Bethlehem.

That unlike our nativity scenes that make it look as if the Holy Family was in a farmhouse barn… Bethlehem is a lot of very rocky terrain and mountains and caves.

The “inn” would have been in the front opening of the cave…while the animals were kept in the back at night.

So in these cramped stony quarters…with the stench of animals in the air… and hay bales for a birthing bed…this is how Jesus…the God with Us…came into the world.

It is into a messy…dangerous…noisy and chaotic world that God meets humanity on our level.

And the ask is simply that we receive and allow God into the fray with us.

Allow God to meet us in whatever circumstances we’re in…whatever joys or sorrows we’re holding…whatever fears hang over our heads…and whatever hopes we have in our hearts…on this night we’re asked to take a pause to realize that God cares enough about all of it…that God trusted a vulnerable couple…and a ragtag bunch of shepherds to be the ones to tell the story.

God is still counting on us today to be the ones who are willing to share this wonder…to see that the true power to transform this world is not given to the the well-heeled and famous.

And true power isn’t about domination and diminishing others.

God gives agency and power to the average person…to  you and me…to be the ones who can meet the needs of this world…because God has met us and loved us on our level through the life and ministry of Jesus.

On this Holy Night….we look to this new life that we celebrate each Christmas…as the one who came to show us that Love…Mercy…and Compassion is the way to live our lives.

To follow that path is the way to peace…and joy…which we can share with others as our gift to the world.

In the name of our One Holy and Undivided Trinity.

 


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